Creative Ways to Celebrate Valentine's Day as a Single Person

Valentine's Day can be a challenging day for singles, but it doesn't have to be. Embrace the freedom and creativity that come with being single by exploring unique and fun ways to celebrate the day. Here are some interesting ideas to inspire you.

Unique Celebrations for Single Valentine's

As a single person, you have the flexibility to do what you want and spend the day in a more chill manner. Instead of focusing on the traditional romantic setup, why not enjoy a fun dinner date alone, go for a nature walk, or simply indulge in your hobbies? Sing your heart out, watch a movie, or buy yourself some flowers and chocolates. These simple acts can make the day special and enjoyable.

Think beyond the typical Valentine's gifts, and consider making someone's day special, like your parents, who may not be in the habit of receiving gifts. Show them some love and appreciation by cooking meals, helping with chores, and doing whatever it takes to make them feel comfortable and cherished. Doing something that Saint Valentine never did—showing respect and love to your parents—can be a meaningful way to celebrate Valentine's Day.

Volunteering and Helping Those in Need

Spending Valentine's Day with a meaningful purpose can add a special touch to your celebration. Last year, I decided to spend the weekend at the hospital ICU, massaging the hands and feet of those in pain. It was a humbling experience to see how much the patients appreciated the little moments of kindness. Some patients, like a 30- or 40-something Latino man, were visibly desperate and sad, thinking about the fear of dying alone.

Despite the monotony of the hospital environment, moments of genuine connection can bring light to their lives. One such moment was when we made eye contact and I maintained a loving gaze, which brought a sense of comfort and understanding to his silent tears. It made me feel even more committed to celebrating Valentine's Day in a way that honors those who need it the most.

Getting Away to Nature and Wildflowers

For those who enjoy the outdoors, finding hidden gems in nature can be an excellent way to celebrate. I often discover spots in the mountains with abundantly blooming wildflowers and try to find the best scenic vistas. This year, since the viewing of the golden poppies was closed off to the public, it was extra special to take my friends to these hidden locations. The hike and flower viewing were breathtaking, and we also indulged in feasting and cooking together, completely without the usual constraints of dieting. On Galentine's Day, we treated ourselves to every possible dessert, from red velvet carrot cake to strawberry shortcake.

Sharing a Special Moment with a Four-Pawed Friend

Spending the day with a furry companion can bring immense joy and comfort. After a day of volunteering, we celebrated at a bakery/restaurant called Azizam. We indulged in an array of cakes—red velvet, carrot cake, strawberry shortcake, fruit cake, and cereal milk cake—each one more delicious than the last. We also sipped on a rose lychee drink and enjoyed coconut whipped cream, sharing delightful moments with each other and our beloved puppies.

When you're single, you can have many valentines without any conflict. So, stop making life harder than it has to be. There are countless people in hospitals who would love to be your valentine. Embrace your unique experience and make the most of this special day.