Dealing with Death Threats from a Not-so-Fake Friend

When a friend sends you death threats, it’s a serious situation that demands immediate attention. Here’s a breakdown of what to do, with insights from someone who faced a similar, disturbing reality.

Understanding the Situation

First, it’s crucial to assess whether your friend is a genuine friend or not. If you suspect they might be a threat, it’s important to take a step back and reflect on the nature of your relationship. Sometimes, these threats can be misunderstood or misinterpreted. However, death threats should never be taken lightly.

Reporting the Threat to the Police

The safety of you and others should always be the top priority. In this case, you need to report the threat to the police. It can be tempting to think that without concrete evidence, nothing will come of it. However, every threat is a serious matter that requires legal intervention.

First Incident: A Cautionary Tale

My former brother-in-law tried to have me killed twice. The first attempt was documented, leading to his arrest and subsequent release due to insufficient evidence. When he tried again, pointing a gun at me, I acted swiftly. I drove to the police department and reported him, leading to charges of carrying a loaded concealed weapon, criminal harassment, attempted murder, and making a death threat.

Second Incident: Trust but Verify

While the second attempt resulted in arrest, the process was fraught with challenges. Actionable proof is often tricky to obtain, especially if the threat is verbal or non-serious in nature. This is why my first case was dismissed despite being reported promptly.

Understanding the Extent of the Threat

It’s crucial to evaluate the seriousness of a death threat. Verbal threats, even those that might seem dire, aren’t always backed by physical actions. Sometimes, such threats are made in a moment of anger or frustration. If you can’t determine the true severity of the threat, don’t hesitate to involve the police, as they have the authority to take action based on probable cause.

Friendship Redefined

Close friendships should not include threats to life. This incident should serve as a wake-up call to reassess your definition of friendship. If someone is willing to send death threats, it’s time to either distance yourself from them or seek help in moving on. In some cases, changing your social circle or even moving to a new environment might be necessary.

Ensuring Your Safety

If your best friend is sending death threats, you should not ignore them. Instead, confide in a trusted adult or guardian for advice. In most cases, ignoring such threats is not an option. Take the necessary steps to ensure your safety and well-being. Remember, you don’t have to handle this alone.

ALSO CALL THE POLICE

Legal intervention is essential in cases of death threats, as they are a form of harassment and assault. The police can provide protection orders, set up surveillance, and take necessary legal action to prevent further harm.