How Was I Ever Lucky Enough to Become Your Friend?

Friendships are among the most precious gifts life bestows upon us. They bring joy, support, and a sense of community. It's not just about spending time with each other; it's about the bond that forms and the positive impact it has on our lives. My friendship with Hannah is one such example of a serendipitous connection that has enriched my life in countless ways.

From Stranger to Friend

Our friendship began in third grade, on the playground. I had mixed feelings at first; I thought I was meeting a different Hannah, the one I had wronged many years ago. However, I was genuinely apologetic and kind towards her, partly because all blondes were believed to be Hannahs. When I discovered the true identity of the girl, I felt relief. I had made a friend, and that made all the difference.

Fast forward a year, and the summer of fourth grade was a turning point. We started our group violin lessons together with Mr. O, a coincidence that brought us closer. Our moms became friends, and soon after, I joined Hannah's Girl Scout troop. I had longed to be a part of it but could never find a suitable troop. Hannah's mom mentioned an open spot, and the rest, as they say, is history.

Building a Lasting Bond

The journey of our friendship was long and full of moments both joyous and challenging. We shared countless experiences—Girl Scout events, horseback riding, school, friendships, petty fights, apologies, jokes, bonding over cookies, reading, pets, support, changes, family problems, boyfriends, breakups, new loves, tragedy, new schools, bad teachers, drunk ones, and even our joint love for the violins and AP classes. We planned for the future and discovered an unwavering love, a sisterly bond that transcended gender differences.

The Force

Friendships are indeed mystical and powerful. They bind the galaxy together, bringing people closer. It's as though an energy field—a force—connects us. Even in our digital era, the essence of friendship remains unbroken.

Lucky to Know Others Too

It’s not just about Hannah. I am also lucky to know many great people, like Axel, whom I met on Quora. I was introduced to Axel by Brooke Schwartz, whose answer in August mentioned him. This led me to explore his profile, and his content was fantastic. I never expected him to follow me back, but he did. With around fifty followers and me having only five, Axel impressed me with his prolific engagement. We commented frequently on each other's answers and gradually got closer.

Our friendship solidified in October when we started messaging and interacting more personally. The blog Brain Dump brought us even closer. When I became a co-owner, it further confirmed our bond. Video chatting with Axel has been fantastic, and I am so glad to have him as a friend.

Conclusion

In the end, friendships like these are gifts beyond measure. They are serendipitous, bringing joy and support into our lives. Being lucky enough to have such friends is a blessing. It reminds us of the power of kindness, the importance of staying open to new connections, and the joy that comes from true friendship.