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Leaving the LDS Church: Insights for Ex-Mormons
Leaving the LDS Church: Insights for Ex-Mormons
Understanding the Term "Ex-Mormon"
The term "ex-Mormon" refers to individuals who have formally departed from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, often moving away from the faith and any covenants they previously made. While the movement away from the church is significant, it’s important to understand the nuances surrounding this term.It’s worth noting that some individuals may continue attending a ward or branch for the sake of family members or friends, but this is a rarity and likely on the occasion when it serves a practical or emotional need.
Excommunication and Departure
By strict definition, when someone is excommunicated, they have left the Church. However, the severity and implications of this expulsion vary. The primary purpose of LDS church courts is to facilitate the process of repentance and potential return. No former member is ever denied entry or attendance; they may be denied active participation in activities like speaking or leading prayers, just as a non-member would be.Often, individuals who were excommunicated continue to attend church for various reasons—from maintaining a connection out of loyalty to their families to seeking spiritual growth. My friend, who is not a member of the LDS Church, attends faithfully and participates only by being seated in a pew. This is not unique and can be done by any non-member whether they have ever been a member or not.
Factors Influencing Return
How many individuals return after excommunication is difficult to quantify. Those who are excommunicated are out of the Church, but the number who return is considerably lower, often under 10 percent. The decision to return is often influenced by personal circumstances, including emotional readiness, faith, and support systems. Many may take time away to reflect and mend their relationship with the church or may never return at all.It is important for individuals to understand that taking time away can sometimes aid in beginning the journey of repentance and return. Every person's path is unique, and the decision to return involves individual factors and personal readiness.
Frequently Asked Questions
How Many Mormons Return to the Church After Being Excommunicated?
Only a small percentage, typically under 10%, return to the LDS Church after being excommunicated. The decision to return is deeply personal and depends on multiple factors, including emotional readiness and the individual's faith.
Does the LDS Church Shun Excommunicated Members?
No, the LDS church does not formally shun excommunicated members. While they may be restricted from active participation in certain activities, former members are welcome to attend church services and listen to teachings, as any non-member could.
Can Non-Members Attend Church Meetings?
Yes, non-members, including former members who have been excommunicated, are welcome to attend church meetings. Their participation is limited to listening and praying with others but not leading or speaking.