Navigating a 50th High School Reunion: Tips and Common Topics

As someone who has attended multiple 50th high school reunions, I am well-qualified to provide some guidance on what to talk about and how to engage with fellow alumni. My high school, Cleethorpes Grammar School (Humberston Foundation School), has been the venue for several of these gatherings, the most recent being the 65th reunion.

The First Steps: Starting the Conversation

The 50th reunion is a time to reconnect with old friends and reminisce about the past. However, you may encounter many attendees who will be unfamiliar to you. The first question people often ask is, 'What years were you at Clee?' where 'Clee' is shorthand for Cleethorpes Grammar School. After sharing your years, the conversation naturally flows into a discussion of shared memories and experiences.

Common Ground: Finding Interests and Shared Experiences

Once you establish the timeline, you can discover common interests and shared experiences. You may reminisce about the school's staff, such as the headmaster or certain teachers. Often, these individuals leave a lasting impression, making them a natural topic of conversation. However, even if your years do not overlap, you can still find common ground. Discussing general aspects of school life, such as extracurricular activities, social events, or local traditions, can help you connect with others.

Engaging with Those You Don't Know

If you are meeting people who attended different years, don't limit yourself to just sharing your own experiences. Engage with others by asking open-ended questions. For example:

"Did you participate in any extracurricular activities during your time at Clee?" "Can you share a fun or memorable story about school?" "What local traditions did you remember from your time here?"

These questions can help break the ice and lead to interesting conversations. Remember, the goal is to reconnect and catch up with people you haven't seen in decades. Be genuine and let the conversation flow naturally.

Utilizing Shared Experiences

While reminiscing about the past, it's also beneficial to share news about your current life. This could include your career, family, or new adventures. Sharing your life experiences can provide a balanced conversation and help others feel more connected.

The Power of Photography and Memorabilia

Photographs and memorabilia are great conversation starters. If you have any photos from your years at Clee, bring them along and share the memories they evoke. Other attendees might have similar items to share, and this can lead to shared stories and further connections. Consider offering to take photos of people posing in traditional school poses or in front of your alma mater.

Final Thoughts

A 50th high school reunion is a unique opportunity to reconnect with old friends and make new connections. The key is to be open, genuine, and curious. By engaging with others and sharing both your past and present, you can create lasting memories and valuable connections. So, the next time you attend a 50th reunion, remember these tips and make the most of this special occasion.