Reflections on Adolescence: Lessons from a Former Teenager

I can still recall the whirlwind of emotions and actions from my teenage years. While every generation seems to have reservations about the behavior and thinking of teenagers, much of what I hear today is eerily familiar. As I reflect, one thing stands out: my least favorite aspect of teenagers remains their lack of respect for others' property. This issue has not only endured through the decades but has also found a new platform with the omnipresence of technology.

No Respect for Property

It’s disheartening to see individuals damaging or desecrating property that others have worked hard to acquire. From scratching beloved objects to letting pets defecate on them, to causing physical damage, these actions are not only disrespectful but also harmful to the economic foundations that support our communities. This disregard for property not only affects the owners but also tarnishes the image and morale of our society.

The Digital Generation and Changes in Behavior

Contrary to the sweeping generalizations, I have only grown to understand and even appreciate the current generation of teenagers. My niece, despite her smartphone addiction, is a decent kid. She’s polite, academically capable, involved in sports, and heading to college for psychology. The issue with most teenagers is not a generational difference but rather a lack of discipline at home. This often leads to their inability to interact positively in social contexts and with technology.

It’s important to note that today’s teenagers are the adults of tomorrow. Their perspectives and actions shape the future of our society. They may have different ideas from the current norms, but this is a natural part of societal evolution. If there is something wrong with today’s teenagers, it likely stems from the parenting and upbringing they’ve received. Parental accountability is crucial in nurturing respectful and responsible individuals.

Dependency on Technology

Another significant concern I have is the dependency on technology. While it’s vital to keep up with the digital age, teenagers must also develop crucial problem-solving skills. Over-reliance on technology to find answers means that they may struggle when faced with real-world challenges. This reliance can create a bubble where they are unprepared to tackle complex issues on their own.

Meanness and Harmfulness

Moreover, there is a concerning trend of mean and harmful behavior among teenagers. Actions such as bullying, recording and laughing at others' misfortune, or engaging in cruelty for fun are not only morally reprehensible but also damaging to community cohesion. While not everyone engages in such behavior, these actions spread negativity and fear within communities, eroding trust and social bonds.

Ultimately, it is essential to recognize that teenagers are shaped by their environments. While there are indeed aspects of their behavior that may appear counterproductive, these issues can be addressed through better parenting, education, and community support. By fostering appreciation for property, encouraging independent problem-solving, and promoting kindness and empathy, we can help shape a future where teenagers grow into responsible adults who respect and contribute positively to society.