Why I Have Paused Sharing on Social Media

Content creation and social media engagement have become integral parts of many people's lives, but for me, the motivation to share anything on platforms like Facebook has significantly waned. This is not due to a lack of activity or busyness in my life; rather, it stems from a gradual loss of inspiration and the need for introspection that follows after extended periods of answering questions on platforms like Quora.

Extended Breaks and Periodic Inspiration Loss

Since joining Quora in December 2017, I have experienced multiple extended breaks, each lasting approximately eight months. These breaks are not planned but rather a result of the natural ebb and flow of inspiration. Despite digital communities always offering valuable and thought-provoking questions, my current state of mind does not allow me to engage with them fully. The desire to write and share fades over time, like a song reaching its final, gentle note. However, the good news is that every time I return, I am always rejuvenated and ready to dive back into the questions awaiting me. The platform itself seems to understand that I will keep coming back, for as long as it exists.

Personal Fading and Technological Shifts

As I age, the allure of traditional community building methods like visiting the nearest post box becomes less practical. The shift in communication patterns, where friends have moved on to using email, phone, WhatsApp, or Skype, has further reduced my ability to seek support or merely connect through conventional means. Running out of motivation to engage on platforms like Facebook is a reality that many older individuals face, as the world around us continues to evolve.

My last significant post was collected by a courier, marking a transition away from digital sharing. It was an important milestone that signaled a change in priorities. While there have been fleeting moments of renewed interest, the overall tendency to share has diminished, mainly due to a loss of enthusiasm in the content I wish to create and share.

Personal Anecdotes and Introspection

Reflecting on past experiences, I remember a time when Taylor, a YouTube star, was important to me. Her music and the support she garnered from fans in her live concerts were a source of joy and inspiration. Watching her perform and her content provided me with a sense of fulfillment. However, the realization that fans watched my training videos left me blushing with embarrassment and a touch of admiration. It turns out, these videos were more private than I initially thought, and the fact that she continued to watch them was a tender acknowledgment of our connection. As she transitioned from making music to pursuing other interests, the bond remained, and she brought a new song that mentioned 'strangers love, nice and sweaty,' a part of the lyrics that was a nod to our shared history.

These experiences, while personal, contribute to a broader understanding of the impact of social media engagement and personal milestones on content creation. They also illustrate the complex emotions and relationships that can develop in the digital age, something that has become increasingly apparent as technology continues to shape our interactions.

Conclusion

While I may not be posting content on Facebook as frequently, the decision to do so is deeply rooted in a desire for inspiration and self-reflection. The community on Quora continuously provides a wellspring of ideas, and when I return, I am always excited to engage with the world of questions and answers. The shift in my online presence is not a sudden decision but a natural evolution that aligns with both my personal and professional needs. As the world continues to evolve, my approach to content creation will continue to adapt, but I remain committed to staying connected in meaningful ways.