How to Approach a Quora User to Turn On Their Messages

Whether it's for professional networking, engagement with the Quora community, or simply to continue a discussion, turning on message settings on Quora can be a tricky issue. Often, a user's message settings are turned off as a personal preference or by mistake. Here's how to approach a user to turn on their messages, while respecting their privacy and intentions.

If Your Messages Were Turned Off by Mistake

For my own case, my message settings were also turned off inadvertently. A fellow user helped bring it to my attention, which was educational in itself. It highlighted the importance of being aware of such settings.

With that in mind, if you discover that another user's message settings are off, you can gently bring it to their attention. However, it's important to approach the situation mindfully:

Check if the user has made the decision to keep their message settings private intentionally. If so, respect their preference and continue the conversation in the comments section. If not, convey your intention and give them the opportunity to respond.

Explaining the Importance of Messages for Engagement

Sometimes, a user may not be aware that their default settings do not allow for messages from everyone. For such cases, especially when dealing with lesser-known or less experienced users, you can kindly inform them of this default behavior and offer your support.

Consider reaching out to the user through a comment on their Quora post or a reply to their comment. Use a tone that is friendly and respectful. Here's an example of a message you could send:

“I would like to communicate with you privately. Are you aware that your privacy settings don’t allow people to message you? If this is intentional, I promise to respect your preference and not keep trying. If not, I’d be happy to continue this conversation through a private message.”

This approach respects the user's privacy while allowing you to have a meaningful conversation.

Respecting User Preferences

Remember, some users might have chosen to keep their message settings off for personal reasons. It’s important to respect their decision and not push too hard. This shows that you value their comfort and privacy. Here are some guidelines to follow:

Try reaching out once for any given person without offending them. Respect their decision if they do not respond or indicate they do not want to receive messages. Repetitive attempts can make you look desperate and could harm your relationship with the user.

Ultimately, if someone does not want to engage in private messaging, it’s best to continue the conversation in the comments section. This way, you respect their privacy while still maintaining an open line of communication.

Conclusion:

Approaching a Quora user to turn on their message settings requires a delicate balance. By being mindful of their privacy and intentions, you can respectfully communicate your needs and build positive relationships within the Quora community.