Why Couldn't I Be Born Very Rich?

Many wonder why they were not born into wealth or grew up in a financially stable family that can pass down significant assets. The reality is, the journey to creating one's own wealth can be profoundly rewarding. Instead of being born into privilege, many find themselves driven to create a better life through hard work and determination. In this piece, I share my personal journey and reflections, and how not being born rich may have actually contributed to my achievements.

Growing Up in Adversity

Believe it or not, my mother was born in the rugged hills of Kentucky in a house without even running water or a floor. My father's father was an elevator operator, and my dad had to drop out of school after tenth grade to support his family. Yet, both managed to carve out a decent life for themselves. Had I been born into a family with wealth, I might have resembled some of the notoriously self-indulgent ultra-privileged individuals like Paris Hilton.

However, the journey to success is often more rewarding when you have to work for it. In my case, my upbringing in poverty inspired me to value what I have and strive for self-improvement. The good news is, you have the power to shape your life and make it whatever you desire. Your early life experiences and challenges can be the springboard for your greatest achievements.

Overcoming Economic Struggles

Money was never something I took for granted. I worked hard for every penny I earned. I never accepted an allowance, and even in college, I declined additional financial support from my biological father, choosing instead to seek employment. This was largely motivated by the desire to prove to myself and my father that I could make it on my own. Looking back, I realize that I wasted time refusing financial help, and it became clear that accepting offers of money can be wise.

At the age of 15, I found myself in an East LA foster home, where I received few benefits save for summer camp and private school. My step-father, who managed the finances while being an alcoholic, never flaunted his wealth. He did, however, give me expensive gifts like a surfboard, BMX bike, and skateboard, which were the fruits of family financial support. It's fascinating how many, but not all, individuals who grow up with substantial wealth end up not appreciating their material possessions and feeling entitled to everything. They often expect others to serve them without question and never consider why they may be viewed as more special or deserving of such treatment.

The Value of Hard Work and Appreciation

My experiences have taught me that things you earn through hard work are more satisfying than those given to you. Appreciating what you have can lead to a more fulfilling life. It's important to make the most of the opportunities and challenges that come with life, and to cultivate a mindset of gratitude and perseverance. Whether you're born into wealth or adversity, it's the choices you make and the efforts you put in that will determine your future success.